Registered: 01-2006 Location: uk Posts: 2352 Karma: 37 (+37/-0)
… *hugs*
yeah but if you use casual sex for the same reasons i did you will only end up feeling more lonely... and if your using it this way i say no i dont agree with casual sex as it will only do more damage than good
I do it often with just friends.
Well im not a relationship kinda gal
And im a tad of a sex addict
And I do enjoy having numerous partners because everyones a different sexual experience
especialy since im VERY experimental with it
To me its just a fun physical act, and great tention releif XD
Registered: 12-2005 Location: Cambridgeshire, UK Posts: 17975 Karma: 128 (+129/-1)
casual sex thats great u feel so confident with people. but from personal experience being '!@#$ buddies' is not all its cracked up to be. u need to be very careful not just about the health implications but the emotional implications too. its fine as long as no one is getting hurt, but in ref to ur previous post, his gf IS going to get badly hurt. which means its not right. both people need to be free and single in order for it to work. xxxxxx
Registered: 12-2005 Location: England Posts: 829 Karma: 9 (+9/-0)
… Casual sex is fine... Although women always get a bad name for it and guys don't... THAT annoys me!
I think if you have a f*** buddy then you need to have rules so no one gets hurt. I had one once and we both knew that we might see other people and that we would never be a couple... It worked fine for us.
I didn't use it in a SI way. We just wanted some fun and some excitement... As I said in my last post... Sometimes it's the excitement we crave!
Registered: 12-2005 Location: Cambridgeshire, UK Posts: 17975 Karma: 128 (+129/-1)
… I think it's something that not enough people think about carefully enough beore acting on it. Not sure many people can make it work successfully? I've always found being in a relationship and caring for someone improves it greatly. Casual can be fun but on the whole it bought me down even more and it never lasts. xxxxx
